Always Stay True to Yourself

I love how I'm starting to know who I am.

Well I always have known but the lines are getting clear.

I know the people that I like and the people that I don't.

I try my best to stay mature and to think positive thoughts. I know my limits and how far I will go to get what I want. I know what I have Tolerance for and what I don't. I don't do drugs and I don't drink.

I Think that's a good start. Don't you?

I'm almost 17 and  for one I can say I don't care to try either of those right now. Because I am  better then that.

 I have learned that no matter how hard life gets drinking is not the answer and even as low as it may get drugs aren't either.

That's the last thing i need.

To not be in control of my body.

I want to be the best person that I can be and if people don't like that then they don't like it.

They can do what they want and I'll do what i want. It's always been like that.

I don't like what people do then.... well...  its whatever.

I have a friend who I thought was awesome. I thought that she was TOTALLY different then all my other friends ( which she is)  and i thought that we could be best friends...  But. As I watched her, I learned that I didn't want to be anything like her. I noticed that I am who I am for a reason; and that people will like me for who i am. I don't need to change, not for anyone, not for any boy just so they will like me. I have made the friends that I have because I am being me. The friends that I have made because I wasn't myself; well those " friends"  haven't stayed around. I am tired of being someone elles just to please other people when I'm the one that's not happy.  To me that's the most important thing. To be happy with myself.

I like to watch people, not in the creeper way but when I'm just by myself i notice how people act and how they talk to others. I notice how some girls have dirty mouths and they talk about them selfs how they think things are completely ridiculous or something and I'm there thinking if i were a guy...  just wow. haha

I don't really swear. every once in a while  but it's not me to be swearing every other word. I have a bigger vocab then that ;)

Don't down grade yourselves ladies.

Remember to Stay True. & Stay.Golden.

Be a good person.

Breath.

Take a Piece of paper and write three things that you love about yourself. then on the other side two that you would like to change.

Every Night when you go to bed read that paper; it will remind you what you love every night and clear up any negative thoughts in your mind. Read the list in the Morning so that you don't forget. The two things that you want to change will slowly yet surely change over time as you work on them daily.

Don't take things to seriously.

Lately I have become a very serious person. Not that there is anything wrong with that; but remember to let your hair down every once in a while. Remember to laugh when you need to and smile. It's amazing what a smile can do. It may just change your whole day.

Be nice.

It's really easy just to give in like other people and to judge.

Don't do it; Don't give in to being rude.

you NEVER know what people are going through in their lives. So the least we can do is be nice. Being rude and mean doesn't make you a better person. Be nice. That is how you make friends and that is how  people will come up to you. Because if you look mean.... well.... people get intimidating.

 One thing  I like to do is write inspiring quotes on Post-it note and stick them up on my wall. I like to read them when ever I'm having a bad day. { and their fun to write ;) }

 Also, On my ipod I have MORE inspirational quotes that I find every once in a while... I also made another list of things that I love about my self. (:

Stay Golden.