Boys wonder why girls fall over and over for the same guys.
The jerks. The losers. The good for nothing.
yet girls are only looking for their special one. The one that cares and wants to be with them day after day, but no matter what those stupid boys do, they make smart girls stupid. They make us smile when we want to cry. They make us laugh when we want to yell. They make us miss them when we KNOW that they are going to stand us up again. We think that we can change them; that they " wont do that again," that maybe, just maybe they will call. Maybe they will show up at your door just because they miss you.
Those boys... Who stand you up. that don't call you. Who you think you are absolutely crazy about.
are simply not mature enough as we are looking for; and they arnt going to change for a girl. They arnt worth us breaking our heart for.
Boys who are interested will call, they will come up to you instead of you going up to them. When a boy likes you he will show you that he wants to be there. You shouldn't have to do most of the work when their only doing a fraction. They wont play games, they wont hurt you on purpose.
I used to believe that unless you are going to love someone love them with your whole heart; but I learned that only gets your heart broken when they don't show that they like you as much as you like them.
Relationships grow with time, its not just going to be amazing the first week, the first month. You will have your fights. your disagreements, they will make you angry doing stupid things but that's no reason to break up with them. When you fall in love you do it slowly, you probably wont realize it at the time until it is to late. Cupid has already shot his arrow and it had landed in your heart along with his. He will be your best friend.
Stay Golden.
but then again what do I know about relationships? :)